Over the last couple of months, I’ve been sharing some of the Rules of the Mind and how they can help us understand ourselves a little more gently. When we begin to understand how the mind works, we can often stop fighting ourselves quite so much. We... (read more)

Have you ever found yourself doing the same thing again… even when part of you really wants to change? Maybe it’s reaching for food when you’re tired or stressed. Saying yes when you wanted to pause. Putting something off. Overthinking a conversatio... (read more)

Have you ever noticed how quickly your mind can shape the way you feel? A single thought can shift your mood.A memory can bring emotion rushing back.A familiar situation can trigger the same reaction before you’ve even had time to think. And sometime... (read more)

There’s something about Spring that feels quietly different… The light lingers a little longer. The air softens. And somewhere underneath it all, there can be a sense of possibility beginning to stir. Not in a loud or urgent way. More like a gentle n... (read more)

In a world that moves quickly and asks so much of us, it’s easy to forget the simple truth that clarity isn’t something we chase — it’s something we return to. It lives inside us, quietly waiting beneath the layers of stress, old stories, expectatio... (read more)

What are your dreams and goals? A dream for your life…what is that? It’s what you imagine, what you want your life to look like. We can all dream…let our imagination run away with itself, create whatever we want whenever we want it. Do our dreams mat... (read more)

What are changes? There is nothing more certain in life than change. It happens continuously throughout our lives with or without our awareness of it. From the minute that we are conceived. The very process of birth is a huge change. One minute we’... (read more)

Spring forward to a new mindset It’s that time of year when new life springs to action in the nature all around us. Here in the UK we put the clocks forward an hour, making it lighter for longer in the evenings. Some of us might even feel the urge to... (read more)

Why? why? why? When we’re really young children, we just accept everything, see the world around us as it is without question. As we grow, we start to want to know why. Anyone that spends time with toddlers can soon get frustrated with the never end... (read more)

So, we are now well into another new year… Christmas seems like a distant memory and there are little signs around us that Spring is on the way (despite the snow). For a few years now though, since our son went to live in China, I also see February a... (read more)